Preganat ? How do you feel?

Ohhh you must be very excited, you must be happy, what are you craving for, don’t compromise in your diet, take care of your health, love yourself, you are not on your own- think of your baby, is your husband taking enough care? enjoy your pregnancy days, listen music, watch romantic movies, do you need baby-book? its most precious time, you will miss afterward, it wont be same in the second baby ....... 

The responses are very positive and encouraging. It really makes me feel; ohh I am special, I need to treasure it.

And there is another side (from the experienced ones)

We have to live in more compromised situation after the baby, Husbands and in-laws are not supportive, they don’t help, they don’t understand, they take you for granted, you wont be cared enough during post-delivery stage as you require, even small things start to hurt much, you will feel guilty towards your baby if you are working, you have to manage your time between work, home and baby, you dont get time for yourself, I cannot think of having second baby ……………

I am still unsure of my own feelings, I feel loved and other day I feel alone. I feel excited and next moment I feel emotionally down.

I am confused.

Was it right time ?

Well everything happens for Good !